The number one question that comes from the students of this course is: How do you set up boundaries after you have unraveled the information you glean from the workshop Feelings vs. Emotions? We point our students back to the resource given on page 12 of the workbook, and resources in the best-selling book Living Consciously In An Ego Driven Society. Both resources are given in this article as well as the purpose of this work.
We discovered in our last article the need to set up boundaries when people are gossiping. We also discussed depression and self-doubt as pointers to ask ourselves questions that lead to the ability to discern why our desire is not being fulfilled. We need to take action to meet our goals, but often times that means we have to communicate with ourselves in a way that is clear, concise, and sets up the parameters for health and life to flourish. This is where the art of setting boundaries is one of the most important factors.
Serious students who use the tools in the Living Consciously Education Program have seen the awareness that they need to set boundaries by cultivating skills found in the Feelings vs. Emotions toolbox. It is important to remember that whatever you perceive, you can achieve. If you begin to see scenarios where you achieve your goals, you must block out those things that do not align with your desired outcome.
As we know, our world is full of those who would mindlessly visualize a desired outcome and get no results. They give up because they do not achieve their desired outcome. They foolishly believe that the Laws of Conscious Living (how the material universe works) do not apply to them. What they don’t understand is that visualization is only part of the equation. They must get out of their own way. They must learn to nurture aspects of the material world to allow for their vision to be realized. This includes setting good and healthy boundaries for the highest and best good of all mankind, the Universe and everyone everywhere. We discuss this in the workbook Step Six – Feelings vs. Emotions, and offer you resources to do just that. In the TeleClass, we will walk you through the step-by-step instructions for realizing this hidden resource to teach you one of the most important Laws of Conscious Living.
From the time we enter into our family life or into the school system, we are taught to imitate facts, information, and habits that help us get along with others. If we’re fortunate enough, we have families and social structures to teach us good boundaries. If we are not fortunate, we must take the time to learn them later in life. The rest of this article will help you set the stage to create the mindset of healthy boundaries.
The desires to create success in our life become impossible when we try to break the status quo without knowing the skills.
Setting healthy boundaries create opportunities to follow the path of success. It is a journey and we who would dare to dream to create a difference take the steps to eliminate failure of realizing our dreams. We who live consciously, take action because we know it makes things happen. We’ve seen our participants achieve greatness by using the tools in the Living Consciously Education Program. Setting good boundaries can be broken down into a step-by-step process. This process is explained in detail in Chapter Three, in the subheading Being in Ego and How To Recognize The Signs on page 34 in the best selling book, Living Consciously: In An Ego Driven Society:
- Success comes when you understand The Nature of Emotions.
- The misunderstanding of information that can be gleaned from feelings and emotions can cause suffering.
- Those who learn the skills of interpretation have access to a hidden treasure trove of intelligence to help them navigate their journey to success.
- We must learn boundary setting, if it is a skill we lack. Feelings vs. Emotions leads you to understand what boundaries need to be set before the drama is played out, creating upset.
- Understanding how to set healthy boundaries and how to communicate those boundaries to those we spend our time with set the stage for success.
- Seeing the value of these tools, previous students have taken the time to integrate the education and skills into their daily life.
If you would like more tips like this and want to understand The Nature of Emotions in your daily life, please sign up for the Living Consciously Education Program informational email. Each month we send out 7 lessons on the topic of choice. This month it is Feelings vs. Emotions.
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Love & Light,
Karen Monteverdi, CPC